This past weekend I taught a class about how different personalities impact work environments and relationships. After the class was over both days, I had individuals stay to ask me “coincidentally” the same two questions. 1. “What happens when my identity is wrapped up in my job?” 2. “How do I fix my relationship with my spouse because we feel
What do a hula-hoop, a board, a splinter, and the Bible all have in common? They are all central to fixing the broken relationships you find yourself living in, accepting, and tolerating. More importantly, they are the key to your own self growth. James 4:1 asks one of my favorite questions in the Bible, “What causes fights and quarrels among
This week has been a rough one. This week has been the greatest blessing. It really depends on where I choose to focus. I feel like I have lived an entire year within just five days. Monday, we received notification our first attempt at what looked like a 10-year iron clad lease four months ago on the first piece of
Yesterday four words summed up my day: 1. Why? 2-3. God’s Timing 4. Humility WHY? My morning started with disappointment and heartbreak over something seemingly trivial upon reflection. I had put personal time and resources into something, and I was kindly asked not to do it. As the tears came, so did more interruptions than usual. Overwhelm began to set
About three months ago, I realized people would apologize every time they came into my office. “I’m sorry to bother you. I know you’re really busy, but…” is how the conversations would either start or end. As I recognized the pattern, I recognized the common denominator in every apology was me. I had let the reality of my internal struggle
QUESTION: How do you work around the “it’s just easier if I do it myself mentality” when it comes to people volunteering to help you? I am swamped… we’ve been growing but still are small enough that I do waaayyyyy to much in the church because other than the lead pastor, I’m the only one on staff full time. I
Do you have a fourth grader learning place value to one million? Here’s a quick idea on how to make it more fun. Create a color coded place value mat. Then use uno cards that match each color to teach the place value. Start by teaching just the ones. Refresh on saying the random numbers you lay down. Then add
Ecclesiastes 3:1-2 (NIV) reminds us, “There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens … a time to plant and a time to uproot.” I remember being 24 and feeling a desire to relocate to a new area. I applied for three jobs in a month. I had three job interviews. I was offered
“DIVORCE IS OKAY. Breaking up is okay. Starting over is okay. What is not okay is staying somewhere you’re not valued and appreciated.” While scrolling my newsfeed recently, I stumbled upon those words, written in those two DIFFERENT “tones”. I shook my head. ✅ Breaking up is okay. You’re dating. You’re discovering if you’re right for one another. You’re flirting
One year ago today life changed. I said goodbye to my work family to focus on my real family. I thought I would start a Podcast and write a book after taking a part-time job, but the job quickly turned into full-time, and that dream still sits shelved. I thought I would be starting school this semester for counseling, but
